Update: I was able to get the phone to ring by switching the vibrate off and back on while a call was coming in. it's weird, but it worked. There are three things I want to still do. 1: put a custom theme. They are all made for 240 and when I edit the files and copy them to the windows dir it stays on loading touchflo. 2: Get text messages to work in the touchflo. I think this is a problem with palm sms. I've been looking for a way to remove it and put in WM 6.1 and 3: Edit the HTC Album XML file to do 320x320 or 320x268.
Here is a screen shot of my today screen and Dialer.
If any one can think of any solutions, please let me know.