Just try some out man, as blazingwolf said, these things dont brick just by looking at them wrong. I've only had mine a few weeks and I've tried almost every rom on it now and even made some of my own with the kitchen. It's not that hard to learn and after you try it some and see what everyone is desribing it starts to make more sense. I've had mine get stuck on the boot up pages a time or two, but if it does you just hold power/camera/soft reset and flash a rom from the bootloader screen. My fave rom so far is OMJ's custom, but there's a lot of good ones out there, and some of the others may be better suited for ya. Good luck, and dont be afraid to try some stuff out