I'm up for anything at this point. I remember using one of your roms on my touch. Right now i'm trying to get it unlocked again so I can flash something. I've uninstalled all the .net frameworks and reinstalled 3.5, uninstalled wmdc and reinstalled it, i'm about to reconnect the phone and see what shakes loose.
Its really bugging me that it works fine for everyone else. I usually have very few issues, I've been a tech support guy for more than 20 years
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