Well... *as i sheepishly begin*... I installed SPB Phone Suite because it has the options I'm looking for "all-in-one" for a monitoring program (even photo speed dial), and I deactivated weaver and PA, BUT I am having the exact same issues as PhoneAlarm that i cannot connect to BT with the PhoneSuite enabled on the today screen. Once I disable it I can then go to wireless manager and activate BT and pair my headsets. Unfortunately I'm not able to keep testing it as of now, but when the day slows a bit i surely will... just a quick note with what I'm seeing so far.
JB - Don't feel you need to read forums for 2 hours
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