Old Man Jenkins, I must thank you. The perfect ROM for me is OMJ Custom, except that I needed some extras--with your tutorial here I was able to fabricate my own custom brew, OMJ custom with a twist.
Much to my complete surprise my first iteration cooked up just fine, so then I started throwing in oems, hit a streak of reboots-on-clicking-on-settings bad batches, but now a sleepless night later, and a lot of test batches behind me, I have my perfect custom brew with all the original OMJ goodness, and all the apps I use every day, net cf 3.5, all running stable. Thank you sir, I feel fairly proficient at this now...
My problem now is I keep finding more cabs that I get the inclination to whip into oems to add to the brew and a new flash and a new round of having to redo all my settings.....
good times, good times...
