Tangix ... you are correct - these are just words we are using here - and everybody reads in their own way. It would not have been the case if it were spoken conversation. Anyway, am happy that finally I got properly understood..
My use of the word 'ignored' was just since I thought that he has not messaged anybody from this ROM since it would have been evident right off ...
Anyway, happy International Literacy Day to everybody! What timing!