If you want a good example of the app you want, look for PEbuilder/BartPE its a program that lets you build your own bootable window preinstall disk. you get a list of available "plugins" which then get put into an image you can burn. the installer comes a with a set of the most used plugins, you then can enable to disable the plugins as you need. You can also download other plugins from anywhere and slap them into a directory and they get added into the list you can even configure them from within the application itself.
you can get a sense for what it looks like at the addy below:
http://www.nu2.nu/pebuilder/
If you really want to keep the almighty power off microsoft from you, only way to do really do it is move to a bittorrent format and find some tracker in indonesia or something like that...