Ok...
So I tried Memmaid, and Oxios. While Memmaid has more fancy features and a nice clean interface, I think Oxios gets the job done a whole hell of a lot better. I have been running for about 3 days without a soft reset! Even with Memmaid I was doing one every day or day and a half. Oxios is just too easy. Have it set up on the start menu and when I need the boost, BAM! there it is. Memmaid, I would have to run a scan, then reclaim my ram and not to mention that damn program is running in the background
Let's eat some more ram!
Anyway after about a week trying each Oxios is the way to go...
With Memmaid avg RAM: 17mb
With Oxios avg RAM 20mb
Big difference when you're on a device that is challenged in that department. Especially if you're tired of closing your sms and email programs, just to free up that little extra.