well, I got it, which is why I posted. Mostly because I can't ever find a headset that FITS my ear. Jawbone II didn't fit, but it was much too nice sounding and quality to return. The jabra eargel trick didn't work well for me because I couldn't find one that fit my ear. This turned out to be the best option yet.
Oh, my coworker wanted to see if the orig jawbone "fit" my earpiece that was custom for the JBII, and it did. I'll keep my JBII.
