I have narrowed down the problem. When I originally looked through the new text messaging app I tried sending a mms message. Then i looked through and noticed you`ve posted not to use the text messaging app for mms. But somehow the mms message was pending, so anything I sent after that was also pending. So i deleted the mms and changed a few settings and it works now.
so to sum it up. dont be a dork like me. read instructions.
one question though. Has anyone figured out how to get mms to download to the phone itself. I hate having to use PIE. and it would definatly simplify things.