[Nickles]

you know, i'm really sorry to hear this.. but it sounds like you are on your way out of it, so thats a good thing.
i don't have an answer on how to exactly get these emails.. but what you can do in the meantime, while you figure out a way, is just do a complete backup of the device (use SPB Backup or whatever else you like to use).. this way you'll have the image, and you can give her back the phone in short order so she won't be any wiser..
this then gives you breathing room to find a solution - and just do a restore to your device, to try it out at your convenience..