Ok guys I finally figured it out, I knew it had something to do with active sync so what I found should be inlcuded in every stickied thread because it solves problems in an instant. the file name is:disconnect active sync and this is the link.
http://forum.ppcgeeks.com/attachment...1&d=1193446257
For everyone out there that is having my problems please try it is works( it worked on my Vista). After you run this thing exit bootloader file runs immediately without problems. I am sorry for wasting everyone's time- guys have been very very helpful.
But again if someone knows how to put it on the stickied threads please do as it is what everyone needs when having active sync issues. Thanks again.