good game aint it?!?

How do you exit the stage once in it? To exit the game I use the internet hard button. But I went to lauras house and now everytime I open the durn thing, Im in the house and cant find out how to exit. I guess what Im trying to say is how do you bring up the "ring" menu when in play. I tried all the keys, read the manual and its says esc key but we dont have one!
Thx,
Mike