jrs, it may have something to do with the new user agent string in the 3.x roms. You can search around for the settings. If I have a chance later I will grab them. Just remind me if you can't find them. These new settings may cause gotomypc to not recognize the phone as a mobile deice.
rene, on the BT issues, the best thing to do is just keep experimenting til you figure out what works. I don't use anything like that so it is hard for me to help. In regards to recording phone conversations, this has been discussed before, but the concensus was that it was impossible (or close to) to get this to work. The problem is that the OS and the radio(phone) are seperated as a function of design. There are always possibilities though.
EDIT: yeah, what he said