Thanks tsperez,
I spoke with my wife again today about this problem... she had been waiting on ME to find a fix... as usual and failed to up date me...as usual. anyway she told me today that this resend issue has not happened since a few days ago... so for now I'm not going to do a thing... maybe its just something that happens with sprint like you said... at any rate if it ain't broke... DON'T BREAK IT
If this happens more often that it has so far I'll try the file that weedahoe sent me
BTW thanks weed!!