Well I do appreciate all the advise guys. What I did was
Upgraded to 3.35 (no threaded sms? wtf no way)
I played with pocketCM and codys threaded, just too buggy.
Then installed No2Chems rev.5060 rom (threaded is very nice btw)
google maps
then the wisebar advance desktop for torx iphone theme
and the tcpmp and flashvideo bundle
And I flashed the rom to No2Chems with no questions asked on the forums, and no errors! yay!
