Free or paid?
Cause Kies does all that...sprint just screwed us out of using Kies cause it includes free software and ability to tether for free :/
The best paid one I hear is CompanionLink..as far as free ones you can try: MyPhoneExplorer or Android Sync Manager WiFi
And I guess evernote for notes...
Here is a list of available options:
Sync Android/Droid with Outlook/Exchange