[gator352]

You can try voice recorders that might be to your liking in the market. There are tons of VR apps to choose from.

Remove your people widget and then re-add. Select an empty category (or make one) and add them one-by-one. I do this regarless of how I edit them (friend, vip, etc.).

Messaging, it only does this after selecting a person to text. If you want to get out without saving, don't hit the back button, hit the home button instead.