Thanks for all the posts! I tried evokings first and could not get over the annoying lock screen/call slider buttons and some annoying visuals.
the EvoNeo is a less-sense rom but not senseless so that wont work.
I am downloading Myn now and will try that with the sense remove
But I just read something that said cyanogemod got 4g working on their roms and will be released tonight so if that is true it is exactly what I am looking for!