hey eric, energyrom does have a rom with no cookie. they are on the first page of the thread, post 3. thats why no one answered you, what you are looking for its on the first page lol. here, these are his roms with no cookie.
hotfile.com/list/599458/cfd6257
and you say cookie is slow, have you changed any settings? disable all the extra homescreens and stuff and you will get alot of that memory back
shoot me a pm and ill tell you how to get 100mb+ free ram with cookie's home tab