Ok, first and foremost thank you to everyone who has actually helped me resolve the issue. The reason i posted the problem was in hopes of getting some actual contribution and this forum has indeed helped. To everyone else who had an issue, I'm sorry. I purchased my phone this way from someone on craigslist. I guess i was taken or whatever you may think but i am happy with my phone and i am happy paying my $50 monthly fee for the same services anyone else on boost receives. I was unaware that anything that was done to my phone was illegal, but i did nothing except buy a phone from craigslist. after getting my phone and playing with it, rooting it, and changing some roms i ended up losing MMS and here we stand.
For the record, changing the MMS server in the ##3282# screen did the trick
I used
Http://mm.myboostmobile.com
Thanks again for all the cool people on this forum for helping me out.