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Old 02-11-2008, 01:16 PM
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Originally Posted by Goddbody View Post
My 2 cents. Try just leaving like real men do. The courts are gonna award custody to her automaticly unless you can prove her to be unfit, but I don't think that cheating qualifies you to custody of the children. That said your gonna pay child support. You might as well get to stepin and go on with your life. You can always see your kids. Bottom line is if she wants to see other people there is absolutely nothing you can do about it. So why be miserable. Just bounce. It's not enough money in the world or love to buy you peace of mind. Start rebuilding as this journey of life teaches once again.
That is such old school thinking and not the case anymore. The courts have learned to do what is least detrimental to the children as possible. Woman are losing the upper hand just because they are women. I actually stand a pretty good chance of getting my three kids.