Ok figured it out!
Apparently you have to be on a 4g network for this to work...
after you switch your phone to 4g it installs a remote NDIS network which im sure you need htc sync installed on your computer to automate the process like you needed device manager before on windows mobile.
I am using this right now here in Nashville and it works just fine.. although I think my 4g is a bit on the low end, but I think im only getting about 2 bars since Im in the outside Nashville area in Hermitage.
Oh wait... my bad!! The program wasnt doing it. The built in Internet sharing was doing the duty.