[matt314159]

I use google sync, and it doesn't delete them off the server when I delete them off my phone. instead of imap/pop, I just set up the account through activesync with the server of m.google.com, your whole email address and password as the login creds, and all other options default, and that's how it works on my phone: delete it off the phone, it just trashes the message there, but will still appear in my gmail when I login on my PC