Oh and as far as themes, you really just need to find the right ones. I agree that many are cheesy. This is the one I am currently using with Froyo and don't find it cheesy at all. The logo on the notification window borders on it but everything else is nice and clean and monotone, no crazy colors of gaudy textures.
http://www.droidforums.net/forum/tea...ack-froyo.html