Thanks given again to both I'm so surprised to have a ROM that runs for now, all of my last attempts resulted in lockups within a few hours... and I still can't find a ROM that's what I want. It's pretty disheartening to be stuck the way I was before... maybe I'll be able to contribute something finally too. Thanks again.

Edit: You had that included in your exts package but you had a folder inside of a folder - it didn't seem to get cooked into the ROM that way. I moved all the contents up one level in the folder and poof - it made it in the ROM and now the bluetooth icons work. Whee! I finally get to experiment now that all of the majorly wrong stuff is corrected.