Thanks so much for your reply i really apreciate it.
I used this rom:
http://forum.ppcgeeks.com/showthread.php?t=16872
And i used the unlocker and RUU from this tut.
http://forum.ppcgeeks.com/showthread.php?t=9927
I would reflash but i dont how to connect it back to my pc from the bootscreen
EDIT: I did some searching around and found how to get back to the boot loader thing, still not fixed but im panicing a little less now.
While im posting I need some vocab lessons whats a radio and whats a kitchen im assuming a kitchen is to edit the roms and a radio is the phone?