ok after all he reading i did it, useing the internet on my htc touch i down loaded from this site, this cab file
http://www.ppcgeeks.com/files/PPCGeeksSprintMMS.zip
installed to device and soft reboot,
once it was done rebooting i noticed that my back groud pic was gone, hit the start tab and i could see half of it, any way i went back and set the pic to my background no problem
ok so i then picked a pic i wanted to send and the list came up and is was on the mms and i said i could not send so i chose to send it with the newpix mms? ithink that was what it said! and i enterd the phone # and some text telling them to let me know if it worked, you know if they got the pic or what not. and at first it said that the failed but i tryed a gain and it went threw
so its like 1 am and my wife is sleeping so i do not know if she got the pic or not but does this sound like i did it right?