ru4life3,
I have TP2 from Telus, had it for 3 weeks now. My Stylus is not extremely difficult to get out, but is snug. I much prefer it this was as I had the HTC Touch Dual and I lost both stylus' since they were effortless to pop out.
I can't run my finger with a little rub and have it pop out, I use a corner of my nail and pull it out. IMHO, I prefer it this way
Best Regards,
Chris Newton