Holy crap, on the 15th try, I just got it to work, lol.
Okay, I installed this:
http://forum.xda-developers.com/show...&postcount=609
Then I installed HTC plus from here:
http://forum.xda-developers.com/show...28&postcount=3
Then I went into my today settings and turned off all today plug ins except for HTC home and it FINALLY worked! I then added them back one at a time until I had what I needed.
Now, I'm not really sure about HTC plus though. It doesn't seem to do anything. Nothing is showing up for it on my today screen, and changing hte options around does nothing.