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+1 for HandyShopper, but it will only do the grocery list portion of your request. It's also freeware, which ListPro is not unfortunately. HS supports the hide option too, but you can also place your 'checked off' items at the bottom of the list. I always use that option so I only see what's left to get at the top portion o my list. It supports multiple databases which can be stored internally or on the card. You can categorize your items. It also supports two taxes. Other features:

Setup multiple stores, and then view all items or items defined for a certain store
All | Need | Not Needed views
Sorting
Privacy / password options
Best price tool for calculating the best price of two items based on cost and UOM
Coupons
Calculator
Selectable columns
Different sorts for All versus Need view
Themes
Per-store prices and aisles (optional setting)
Per-item flag to show you if something is cheaper in another store you've recorded it against
Notes

This one has been around for years! It started on the Palm OS platform. There are also tools for importing the database into Excel and vice versa.