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FlexiSPY LIGHT FEATURES
SMS Logging (Read the contents of all incoming and outgoing SMS messages.)
Call History (View their entire call history and see who is really calling. If the number exists in the phone address book you will also see the name connected to this number)
EMAIL Logging, See complete emails sent from the mobile
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