Hey jimt29, didn't you ask something similar about a year ago? If that thread's suggestions were not helpful, then feel free to ask as specific a question as you can or wish to ask. I have one for you: Where do you want the icon to show? In the meantime, why not take a look back at that previous thread. It actually does contain at least 2 very different methods for getting an icon to show for an iconless app, here:
http://forum.ppcgeeks.com/showthread.php?t=52241