I have been looking for the same thing. you have a lot more, i wish i knew what some of yours did. i have asked this question a couple of times and i cannot get anyone to say yes what i have is a good combonation or no i need to add something for better proformance or what ever.
Here is what i have installed on my phone right now:
sdkcerts.cab
NETCFv35.wm.armv4i.cab
TP2_Leo1919_Slider_AllTabs.cab
SndTabs.cab
SettingsAndCommIcons.cab
Customize_Tabs_Colored_Icons.cab
Bckgrnd 4 all Tabs.cab
SSK TP2 Dynamic Resource Proxy.cab
QM_Midomi_1.6.57.CAB
HD Tweak 0.5.4_English.cab
DHarvey HTC Programs Tab Fix.cab
color Call histoy and Calander cab
still i am looking for a taskbar that has 3g that is not purple or a call history and calender icon that is not red.