Hi guys, Hope I can help. I know that ever one loves Itunes but there's a great program called MediaMonkey. Just like Itunes but some people even say its better. I would have to say so myself. But Itunes does have the app store. But with Media Monkey when you connect your phone it shows up on the app. For me its says HTC touch pro 2 in the list. Just like when you connect your Ipod in Itunes. And from a drop down list its lets you pick where you would like to put your music. It's really nice. And it was what I had been looking for. Best part is, is that its free... Check it out ....
http://www.mediamonkey.com/