thanks I also found one that uses my mobiler and video capturing program here are the links
Download mymobiler:
http://www.mymobiler.com
Download VH screen capture driver:
http://www.hmelyoff.com/index.php?section=8
Start mymobiler and activate your mobile camera
Grab the part of the screen you want with VH screen capture
Now you have a webcam stream which you can use in any program like skype, msn etc..
Instead of using the microsoft remote tool use mymobiler. It is much faster.
PS: You need active sync to communicate with mymobiler
(thanks to xda-developers.com)