I found this
http://forum.xda-developers.com/show....php?p=4873791 linked from here
http://forum.ppcgeeks.com/showthread.php?t=87909
I tried the registry edit from the second link first, and it worked until a soft reset, which brought the problem right back...so I figured something else was causing it...I ran the program, it said it fixed it, I soft reset again, and TF3D came up with 1 notification again, so I figured "maybe I got a message while it was booting"...I didn't...so I checked the registry, and it said 0...then TF3D seemed fine....so I just soft reset again, and now it seems ok...I hope it works out, I really don't want to hard reset, everything else works great, and since I don't know how to cook my own rom, I have some stuff installed after I loaded this one, and I have my tabs configured and all that...