This isn't the only place the problem is being discussed. We talked about it here:
http://forum.ppcgeeks.com/showthread...ighlight=dodge when the TP2 first came out.
I agree that the Widcomm stack is a superior stack, I like a lot of the features it has. However, lack of handsfree control of my phone is a deal breaker. If I had to forsake everything the Widcomm stack offers just to regain basic functionality of the MS Stack, I'd do it.
In fact, I just had a Moto Droid for a day. Found out that I cannot dial handsfree at ALL with it, unlike the TP2 which just has the delay issue. The Droid goes back. I can't live without handsfree.