Put NFSFAN's latest 6.5 rom on the phone.
6.5 is far easier to deal with then 6.1...
I would opt not to use Titanium or M2d
I would try out winterface.
http://iwindowsmobile.com/vito-mobile-shell.html
PM me if you need help with it , if you know what im saying....
This should be the easiest setup.