Sinful1217 go ahead and try this link
http://forum.xda-developers.com/showthread.php?t=479717 for your 1 in front of the new message option. In regards to the !, where exactly do you see that. If it's on the home screen you might have it the TF3 and all you have to do is click on the missed call and it should bring up the call histrory for the TF3 and remove it once you go back to the home screen