I GOT MMS TO WORK!!! WHOOO!!!
Ok this is what I have done....I did the manage networks thing that everyone has posted about for verizon, for both verizon and cdma. Then I went and setup the mms settings that everyone has talked about. Then I installed this
program, went to the registry and added the string name and value for it and closed the editor. Did a soft reset, ie pushing the button underneath the battery cover next to sd card. And violla