Here's my new hotness...
Installed:
Palm Threaded SMS app
SiriusWM5
Weather Watcher
Windows Live
pRSS Reader
IM+
Total Commander
Oxios CloseApp
Spb Phone Suite
Finger-Friendly Friends
Touchpal
and of course cLaunch
This is ver 3 of my today screen. I used HTC home plugin and I also tried the Iphone lookalike with wisbar. For both of those I just wasn't happy about the available ram and performance.
With the setup shown above I have 25mb free at startup!