I'm not that good at giving out detailed advice. when I first joined ppcgeeks it was a little different the roms were pretty simple and kitchens were so you could strip out programs you didn't use and add in the ones you used more frequently. now you can choose what interface you want windows 6.1,6.5,6.5.1 or spb shell. The more you read the better you will be able to customize your device to what you want.
http://wiki.xda-developers.com/index...me=HTC_Raphael
http://forum.ppcgeeks.com/showthread.php?t=42584
http://forum.xda-developers.com/show...55#post1896955