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anytime i run in to a problem like that, i backup my contact, messages, etc, and hard reset (worst case scenario). i keep all my cabs in folder on my memory card, so i can easily go down the line, and install each cab while checking to see if the problem returns (single out the problem).

once you get your phone running smooth do a back up.... matter of fact, do a back up regularly, and whenever you run into a problems like that again, just do a restore, and go from there.

dudes on this forum are helpful, but with glitches like that, it's really a shot in the dark. especially when there's limited info, like what apps, and tweaks you've installed.