[imnuts]

I've had issue #2, though not as severe as you seem to. I've done a few registry tweaks to help out a bit. I don't remember all of them exactly, but they basically free up memory that TF3D is taking up to try and speed up programs, but I haven't noticed a difference. If you feel comfortable editing the registry, here are the two things I did to free up a lot of memory, and I believe they're both in the Tweaks sticky. Set ShareMemSize=0 under HKLM\Software\HTC\ResProxy. The other tweak is to disable PushInternet which causes Opera to constantly be running, along with disabling the "exclusive" mark on Opera so that it can be closed with the HTC Task Manager.