No problem. Like I said...wait until you're asleep before you start threading them. Usually the Inbox messages load up first, but after that it takes time for your phone to actually thread your sent messages in there. You can usually tell the messages are loading by looking at the bottom of the screen right above the two soft menus where it usually says "1 conversation selected". This will be flashing...meaning its in the process of loading everything up. If the text isn't flashing try exiting out of the text messaging and opening it back up.