Try this we just came up with it.
After some work a 1 cab fix is upon us. First thanks to helmi_c, LennySh, HTC, and Naigaman for the magic .dll Without your work it would not be possible.
First this has been tested for Apache with WM6 without voice command installed. Just install the .cab (voice command is included) and pair your bt headset and you will good to go no other steps necessary. No IDtransfer Just VC and fix all in 1 cab. No having to click everytime you reboot. Hope you enjoy.....
http://rapidshare.com/files/63888630/VC_Fix.CAB
CaptJager