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my favorites are Silence 9 , Demolition, but for the last week or 2 I've been running Groove rom..I used his kitchen and made the rom to my preference and its been running superb for a week or 2 so far...but as you have read... roms are all trial and error as i havent tried them all..so many to try.. nor can you.. but your best bet is using some ones rom and kitchen so you can add/remove what ever you like and make it perfect for you.
As a side note grooves kitchen is the first time I ever used a kitchen and its so simple to add/remove what you want that I just don't see my self ever not using a kitchen again..and think all ppl should include such a simple kitchen with there rom.