I have to say I'm pretty lucky. My wife doesn't complain about my geekdom (it sure pays the bills-I'm a senior systems engineer professionally) and she's given into the call of the geek. (She also runs 4 computer labs for students)
Heck, this weekend alone she was on the xbox killin folks for around 26 hours. At one time she was playing games on the Xbox, AND on her pc. (at the same time) She's not into her phone tho. To her, it's just another tool to have to talk to folks. But she doesn't mind mine, as long as I have it on when she wants to call.