[ou2mame]

i use ez secret sms, which lets you set specific contacts to hidden. what this program does is create a "secret" inbox, that can only be accessed through a hidden app, disguised as a calculator. it can do math, and when you press the right keys, it opens up. then, when you're inside, you can configure specific events, just incase you need to know when this person is txting you, but you don't want anyone knowing even if they're looking at your phone. during hockey season, i have it setup to have my friend "tom" write me "islanders suck!" everytime whatsherface txts me. you could make the alert from twitter, or whoever. you can even set specific ringtones or system alert sounds.

its a great program, i only have it enabled while i'm with a chick, so that i don't run into any problems. its the only way i can leave my phone laying around if i'm dating somebody. even if i'm not cheating, most of my friends are girls, most of which i've dated at one point or another, and they're sometimes flirty. its meaningless 99% of the time, but its rude to throw it in a chick's face. though, she shouldn't be looking at my phone in the first place, but i get why somebody would. you can't trust anybody.